Is Asian caucasian dating really "easy" with Korean women? Discover the BIGGEST mistake Caucasian guys make when dating Korean women.
Have your Asian friends ever told you that Asian Caucasian dating is "easy"?
Did they even tell you about how Korean women will love you because you're white?
Well - 'yes' and 'no'. Ironically it's challenging because Koreans do believe that it's "easier".
At the same time Koreans in general admire and envy white people - making dating Korean women even more challenging.
So Korean women in general protect themselves and their reputation.
Where does that leave you? Discover the dynamics behind Koreans dating caucasians.
White skin is "in". Westerners in general prefer a tanned skin. In Asia the whiter your skin the more attractive you are.
In Korea this even more so. If you're a caucasian man then your chances of dating a Korean woman are higher. If you're a foreigner and you're 'white' then you'll have to work harder at having a relationship.
White means 'Western'. South Korea admires Western nations and wants the status that these countries have. South Koreans also grow up impressed with what Western nations have accomplished.
If you're Caucasian then Korean women will associate your status with your skin color and country. This makes attracting Korean women easier.
Does that mean that any Korean woman would prefer being with you? Not quite.
You're different. Koreans in general grow up in a homogeneous society. Korean society shuns on anything 'different'.
When a Korean woman considers dating you she's also considering what her friends and family will say. In most cases her peers will frown on her for dating a caucasian man.
In fact there is a stigma for dating a Westerner that you can feel even to this day. If you're dating her in your country then chances are that she didn't tell her family about you.
We're not even talking about the cultural differences.
Western reputation. Korean women think that Westerners find Asian Caucasian dating "easy". They are more afraid that you will just date and suddenly abandon them.
Granted women everywhere fear being abandoned. The difference is that the media and social belief is that caucasian men ALWAYS abandon their Asian girlfriend or wife. Just ask Koreans if they think that Asian Caucasian dating is "easy".
So when you're getting to know a Korean woman she has this belief in the back of her mind. Many would rather protect themselves emotionally rather than dare to date you - Unless you're able to address this issue and show that you're "different" than most Caucasians.
Why do Koreans (Korean men specifically) do what they can to prevent interracial dating?
The main one is that Korean society and culture is very tribal.
This isn't good or bad but it's still how it is.
Another reason is that many South Koreans evaluate things very superficially.
If you're white then your skin color is different. In their minds it "implies" many things about you.
Granted I'm talking about Korean society in general. Individually Koreans are opening up and some will have relationships with Caucasians under the right circumstances.
Also things are changing. I hope that Korea becomes more fair with respect to interracial dating - but it'll take a long time if ever.